Tuesday, March 30, 2010

WHAT?! DID I SAY SOMETHING WRONG?!

I WORK HARD, GOD DAMN HARD, TO KEEP THIS ROOF OVER MY HEAD & PAY OFF THESE CREDIT CARDS.
I WORK HARD, GOD DAMN HARD, TO PUT THAT GAS OFF IN THE TANK & MAKE THE PAYMENTS ON THIS CAR.
I WORK HARD, GOD DAMN HARD, SO I COULD WILD OUT EVERY WEEKEND & BUY DRINKS AT THE BAR.

i have a billion and one things to blog about but i put it all on my berry!! horray for me! currently my berry is upstairs though.. and i am not upstairs so check back for an entryyyy some time tonight.. or tomorrow. what?! no surprise there, this is botch.

anyway.. this is going to be hard as shit for me to form into words.. but i'm going to do my best.. bare with me.
so there's this dude i know.. he's good looking.. he's not a ten or nothing, but he's good looking.. but he's kind of really extremely pervy.. but you know, the drunk pervy. the "i'm only saying this now because it's excusable because i'm drunk.. so it's cool right?" type pervy. he'll get drunk and slap your ass, call you hot, almost make out with you, but stray away type deal.. and i've never really been mad at dude. & there's plenty of people who have experienced this side of dude, but what makes it okay?!
okay, maybe not okay.. but.. dismissible. i mean, we've had other dudes do it, and they get cussed the fuck off, or they get hit.. so what makes it so different?! i kind of feel like every time this shit happens, we forget about it. i mean surely i forgot about it.. until someone brought up how it happened to them.. then all these memories start floating back.. and you're like "oh yeahhhh.. he fucking did that to me last week, WHAT IS HIS DEAL!!"
if an un-attractive dude came up to me and said "yo, i wanna fucking tear you apart", i'd either hit him, a drink would go flying, or he'd meet my hand/ however, if an attractive dude came up to me and said "yo, i wanna fucking tear you apart".. i'd do one of either two things.. i would either play it off like i was pissed off, or i would really be pissed off. so for an attractive dude, 50/50 shot, but a shot. un-attractive, no shot.. but i feel even if i was mad at the attractive dude, a part of me would want that shit to keep going. a part of me would want to be like "fuck you prick.. what's your name?"
regardless of what girls say, or fuck it. actually, fuck that sentence all together.. regardless of how much i complain about dudes being raunchy as fuck, sometimes i like myself a little vulgarity. vulgar profanity is sexy as shit, and that leads me to wonder.. is DUDE, going to get away with everything, without anyone ever pointing a finger, because he's good looking..!? so today, my question is this..

DO LOOKS MAKE THE WRONG "OKAY"?

7 COMMENT:

Anonymous said...

its just another double standard... double standards always cause trouble. its not okay.

i also think the opposite is ok. if a girl does it to a guy i think the general consensus among us guys would be like "it's all good, whatever".

so would this be like a Triple standard? quadruple?

Ron said...

Yes, looks do have an affect on what's acceptable and and what's not.

And it shouldn't be that way. People get away with being unfaithful and all around asses to their partners. But some get forgiven with the bat of an eye or a rub or a hug.

I mean, I can't really be an advocate of fairness in terms of social interaction combined with alcoholic beverages because, apparently, I've slapped a few asses too ( I blacked out that night so I don't remember much of anything). I don't think I'm the standard definition of good looking so I guess it depends on various factors: the environment, the persons vibe, physical attraction, etc.

Anonymous said...

well personally if he is un-attractive or even attractive it would be a HELLL NAHH either way. lol. the drunk, sleezy guy aint my type.
because if every other girl says "well whatever, he's drunk. but he's hot. it's okay." then imagine this guy will think it's okay to hit on every girl because they let it go. dude's a player. drunk or sober...dude's a player. i hate those guys that thinks he can get with every girl!
maybe i'm one of the few out there that will turn the guy down even if he is attractive.

"the prettiest people do the ugliest things."
-kanye

Anonymous said...

I don't care if u killed a guy I'd still be obsessed with you.

Drunk girls are right up my alley and dirty comments are bait.

Can you let me know which concerts you've been at. You seem to go a lot and which of those you've gotten with lmfao. I'm curious and you said ask anything

syntifik said...

#1: being a girl, and thinking most dudes are only in it to hit it, i think even ugly broads would be able to get away with shit when it comes to dudes. i'll throw in an lol to not sound so fucker-ish.. lol.

ron: i hate the whole forgiving thing! i see it happen all the time. & regardless of what you think ron, you're damn good looking.. !!
it's funny that you mention environment, i couldn't agree more with that statement.. i've brought up how that shit affects people like no other this whole month.

#2: look at you with your morals.
you never find players sexy?! dammit. i totally have lol..

#3: uhhh thanks!? lol.. you must be the player.
we'll see about that question lol.. no i'll answer it.. but geeze. thazz a little much.. it kind of makes me nervous ahahha

jHeffffffff said...

I hate it when guys slap my ass =/

but on a serious note, and I'm like an 8, I think it sucks when the 10's are having all the "luck" with the ladies. like, give us lowbies some love too. I repeat, being an 8 myself, it's not okay that 10s are getting away with that.
Aww who am i kidding, im probably a 9 (no big deal) but that's not the point. The point is, I hate when guys slap my ass =/

syntifik said...

lol omg jheff you're so funny.
you're totally a 9!!